I need to explain something to you very carefully. If I look back in time, and compare my way of life and standard of living to others around me, it was pretty close. Whether I intended that to happen or not, it’s what seemed to naturally unfold. Yes, I have been own person – or at least I’ve always thought I was – but then why do I have so many similar traits of those I hang around most?
It’s a social response, and conditioning. Depending on how self contained you are, will depend on the magnitude of that social response during a given time period. But it’s natural, we tend to open up, intertwine, and blend with the ones that we associate with. We have similar styles, we make similar income, similar habits, and enjoy similar things.
We create others to be what we want, while at the same time, others are creating you to be what they want. And we do this unconsciously, but having that similarity allows us to be open and comfortable around each other.
This is not a bad thing at all. We are social beings, and we enjoy comfortable company, but in case you were not aware, there is enormous power in this simple idea. It all goes back to your power to choose.
People tend to want more out of life than what’s been given to them. They want this and they want that. They want a better life, more income, a bigger house, financial and overall life success, but yet they continue to live the same habits, and do the same things over and over. They are wanting, but are drifting though life and don’t even know it.
You have the power right now in your hands to be intentional about what’s next in your life! If you want to start living the good life, do you think it would behoove you to start seeking out people who are living the good life, and surround yourself with that world? It’s easy to point at success, or something that you haven’t achieved and say it’s not fair. Why not instead, look at success, and start living it, and being amongst it.
When you decide to live a certain way, and involve yourself with certain people; when you start to be intentional about your own greatness, great things will begin to happen. Great things are happening right now in front of you, even just from reading these words. All you have to do is see it, believe it, and do it!
Most millionaires in America are self made. Do you think they sat on their beach chairs with everyone who thought the water was too cold, or did they jump in with everyone who thought the water was just right!
'You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.' ~Jim Rohn
Creative Visionary of Champions™