God’s grace WILL change people. As women, we believe that if we just tell our husbands one more time he will hear me or he will understand me better. STOP! By you nagging, you are not going to get results. So allow yourself to see through God’s eyes. “I am what I am by God’s grace and God’s grace hasn’t been for nothing. In fact, I have worked harder than all the others that is, it wasn’t me but the grace of God that is with me.”( 1 Corinthians 15:10 CEB) We are not God. God created you and me and with that same grace he gives us freely, we must in return give to our husband. You have to allow yourself to have the right perspective about your husband and life.